THERE’S no better feeling than finally meeting someone who ticks all your boxes.
But one woman has been left disappointed by her perfect boyfriend’s penis size.
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Speaking on sexpert Emily Morse’s podcast, the woman explained he was everything she wanted despite lacking in that department.
On the call, she said: “I recently started dating this wonderful guy, he’s everything I could want from a personality perspective.
“However we do have a little bit of a problem because he has a micropenis.”
She went on to say he was two and a half inches long when erect, and while she wanted to get over it, sex was too important for her.
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“Penetration has been my favorite aspect of sex,” she explained.
Because I really like the connection of it and I don’t know what we can do to make it better or if it’s worth working through because everything else is there but sex is such a huge part of a relationship.”
Not only was she unsure if it was worth fixing, but she also said they had another problem as he refused to talk about it.
The pair have been dating for three months but he constantly shuts down when she brings the topic up.
The sex expert offered some suggestions like using sex toys but she was nervous to discuss it with her partner.
“He shuts down when we talk about it so I don’t know if it’s coming from an insecurity perspective and I don’t want to make him feel uncomfortable with his body,” she continued.
While she was happy to try sex toys or different positions, she said the sex was ‘just not satisfying’.
To add to it, the woman felt her new partner wasn’t even interested in making her climax.
“He’s not taking the initiative to see how he can make it more pleasurable for me,” she said.
Emily revealed there was nothing left to do but have the awkward conversation to make sure both were satisfied.
The sexpert revealed that size was in fact not the problem.
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She said: “I always say that it’s really not about your penis size, that’s not the challenge.
“The challenge is somebody who isn’t willing to communicate about your sex life, they’re not willing to find out what you actually need to be turned on, what makes a good sex life.
“There are so many other ways you can satisfy a partner with your hands, with your mouth, with toys.
“But a partner that just stays mute to communicating about sex I believe isn’t a partner for anybody who has a growth mindset and wants everyone in the relationship to have the most sexual satisfaction and pleasure.”
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