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Man confronted by HOA over helping his elderly mom – he was interrogated while walking dog & snapped ‘is that a threat?’


A MAN was confronted by a senior HOA official while walking his dog, sparking a tense exchange that was caught on video and quickly went viral.

The incident unfolded when a TikTok user visited his 70-year-old mother in a Florida-based 55+ community to help her fix up her recently inherited home.

Man in golf cart on residential street.

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A man was stopped by an HOA official while walking his dog, leading to a tense exchange caught on videoCredit: Tiktok/maddmavic
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The incident began when 47-year-old Maddmavic visited his 70-year-old mother in a Florida 55+ community to help fix up her newly inherited homeCredit: Tiktok/maddmavic

After a couple of weeks of staying there, Maddmavic (@Maddmavic), 47, was stopped by the HOA president and his wife while walking his dog.

The HOA president approached, asking how long Maddmavic had been in the area.

Maddmavic, seemingly caught off guard, responded, “A couple of weeks, probably. I don’t know, why?”

The conversation took an awkward turn when the president insisted that Maddmavic had to be registered if he stayed for more than two weeks.

The exchange continued as the president explained that guests could stay up to 60 days, but Maddmavic’s mother, who owned the property, was the only one officially registered.

“You need to talk to her about that. I’m here for work.” Maddmavic confirmed.

Despite the Maddmavic’s assurance that he would not be staying much longer, the HOA president was insistent.

“If you’re going to be here longer, we need some information,” the president said, asking for an emergency contact in case of an incident.

The interaction took a tense turn when Maddmavic bristled at the request.

“Why do you need my personal emergency info?” he snapped.

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The president said, just in case of an emergency.

The conversation continued as Maddmavic clarified he would likely leave before April.

The HOA president acknowledged this but still insisted on gathering information.

“It’s just a matter of park rules,” he said, before asking Maddmavic how old he was.

Upon hearing Maddmavic was 47, the president confirmed that people under 55 can stay in the community only if accompanied by a 55-year-old or older resident.

As the conversation progressed, Maddmavic, feeling uncomfortable, became increasingly frustrated.

Maddmavic, in his TikTok comment, also mentioned that he felt threatened when the president suggested he needed to leave if he were staying longer.

The video amassed over 600k views, more than 7,400 likes, and over 400 comments.

“If I’m here more than two weeks, does that sound like a threat?” he wrote in the comment, asking if the president’s words implied he was being warned or intimidated.

What is an HOA?

One in five Americans live in an area with a Homeowners’ Association – or HOA. But what exactly is it that they do?

  • An HOA is a homeowner’s association – an organization that aims to maintain a clean and cohesive place to live for its residents.
  • Entire neighborhoods, subdivisions, condominiums, family homes, or townhouses within “a planned development” will often make up an HOA.
  • They also act as a governing body for tenants, who run and fund the HOA through monthly fees.
  • Their principal aims are to keep the community functioning and visually appealing and to maintain property values.
  • They primarily focus on common areas of a neighborhood, such as roads, parks, and pools – but may also stipulate what residents can do with their properties, such as yards and driveways.
  • Often these restrictions enforce uniformity on properties, for example, ensuring most houses look the same and all driveways are clear of weeds.
  • An HOA rulebook of covenants, conditions, and restrictions (CC&R) is distributed to all residents, and an elected volunteer board of directors enforces these regulations.
  • Breaking these rules can result in penalties such as fines and even litigation – as most HOAs are incorporated and subject to state law.
  • HOAs are often the subject of controversy, with some members feeling that the rules are too punitive and restricting, or that the leadership has too much power.
  • But others like that HOAs give communities the power of self-governance, and can ensure a degree of harmony between residents.

TIKTOK DEBATE

The viral video sparked a range of reactions in the comment section. Some users sympathized with the man, criticizing the HOA’s behavior.

“He’s acting like it’s a subdivision of mansions,” one commenter on TikTok said, referencing the HOA’s overbearing approach.

“HOA’s and old people with nothing to do. The worst,” one user wrote.

While another said, “Dude is acting like it’s a subdivision of mansions. It’s a trailer park.”

Others defended the HOA president, acknowledging the strictness of 55+ community rules.

“This is a decent HOA interrogation compared to what I’ve seen online,” one comment noted, adding that the president even reassured the man he wouldn’t need to visit the office if he left before April.

There were also frustrations expressed about HOA rules in general.

“HOAs are the worst thing to happen to America’s housing. They are everywhere now!!!!! And people buy into it, then complain,” one comment said.

Several users pointed out that the HOA was simply following the rules for a 55+ community.

“There are rules in HOA‘s and 55+ communities. Don’t hate on the old guy because he wants people to follow the rules. There are reasons that rules are in place at 55+ communities,” said one commenter.

Maddmavic didn’t immediately respond to the request for a comment by The U.S. Sun.



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