Comedian Nikki Glaser has opened up about her relationship and how she keeps her husband open for other women.
Famously known for berating the rich and famous on Comedy Central Roasts, the 40-year-old was candid about her 10-year relationship with TV producer Chris Convy.
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“I like my boyfriend to at least entertain the idea of being with other women or be with them…I want things that other people want,” she previously told Graham Bensinger.
“I wouldn’t mind if [he] had a little fling with someone else… Everyone has their own kinky thing. My thing is, I don’t mind that.”
Despite being in an on-off relationship with Chris, Nikki says she finds it a turn-on to think of him having sex with other women, although she wouldn’t do it herself.
Speaking to Gwyneth Paltrow on her Goop podcast, Nikki shared her sexual fetish of ‘hot husband’.
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Nikki said there have been a “couple” of times “years ago” that her partner hooked up with other people and she was totally fine with it, so long as the other woman know it’s nothing more than sex.
“I think girls sometimes can be convinced that, ‘He’s gonna leave her for me,’ it’s like, that’s not gonna happen, so just know what this is,” she said before telling Gwyneth that the idea of Chris with other women is a “sexual fetish” of hers.
Nikki added that the element of competition kept her on her toes and made her even more attracted to him knowing other women want him.
She continued: “I think it’s definitely the competition thing of like, ‘Ooh, maybe he will leave me for her. OK, I gotta step it up.’
“I kind of like that. But also, I think he’s hot, and I kind of am like, Try this out. It’s like lending my friend a hairdresser. I don’t know, like, have a good time!” Nikki said. “It’s a fetish. I’ve looked into it, it’s called Hot Husband.”
The ‘Hot Husband’ fetish is a term used to describe a woman who likes her partner to have sex with others outside of their relationship.
For Nikki, she explained she isn’t interested in watching the deed go on but likes for him to come home and tell her about the bonk as part of their foreplay.
She also revealed she was not interested in having sex with other people, as the kink wasn’t a ‘two-way street’.’
“If I’m in a monogamous relationship, I might have that flutter with someone and indulge in it, but it can’t go beyond that…because [my boyfriend] isn’t into that,” she explained.
“So it’s not like a two-way street, which I think is fair because he doesn’t even want this, like, my weird fetish.
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“The strange thing is, he’s like, ‘I don’t need anyone else or crave anyone else, [but] I’ll do it if it turns you on.’”
While speaking to Gwyneth, Nikki revealed she was reluctant to discuss her non-monogamous views as she’s afraid of being perceived as a ‘pick me’.
The term describes a woman who tries to be different to other women in order to gain male attention and validation.
“I wish I didn’t feel this way because it seems like I’m being that kind of girl,” she explained. “I don’t do anything that would cause me pain.”
Nikki went on to say she was confident in herself and her relationship, so she didn’t get jealous or worry about being replaced.
When it comes to my relationship, I just don’t have jealousy over him getting close to other women,” she added.
